Mommy Talks

 

♥️Becoming a mother brings lots of other responsibilities too apart from cherishing 'Mumma' word from the baby..

The convention of mother taking care of baby is outdated in this era but mind it, we have few exceptions too everywhere . Kuchh toh log kahenge type😊

Luckily I have a supportive life partner who can manage almost everything of the parenting science. Science I am telling because this involves study and practical knowledge of a broad canvas. 

Problem is that people can't imagine a father caring baby and mother doing job with elan. It doesn't seem normal for many. 

Its matter of a couple understanding how they want to handle parenting in a nuclear family. We have decided to be with baby alternatively. When I will take leave he will be working. Then why the hell so much concern & gossiping from everyone on our this decision.

A mother used to face so many presumptions already regarding her manner of parenting from everyone and by any means she will be responsible for baby 's wrongdoing ( good habits of baby come from any so called family members other than Mom🤣).

Any mother either home maker or working deserves a salute in any case. 

She loves, pampers her baby yet can be irrirating too simultaneously but when she sees baby, she forgets everything except squeezing her little baby with warmth🥰 

Think Positive 😊

One amazing and learning experience of my life...sharing with all of u...

Previous thursday I went nearby ATM..took out money..came room happily..leaving my samsung galaxy grand at ATM...went there again after 10 mins..mobile was not there for obvious reasons..that ATM bank branch was nearby..went and enquired about cctv camera footage...they told to come next day...

2nd day went to police station for complaint..completed formality...came bank wid Additional SHO (SI)...checked footage n saw one guy took the mobile who did only balance enquiry before taking mobile...branch manager told its ur hard luck...we cant provide u any information because he had not done cash transaction..came room helplessly...


Next day got to know with one of my seniors relative that with some ATM Switch and E bay function bank can provide us info regarding that guy's account and other details but they misguided us...I did written complaint to bank and requested for info regarding culprit details...he accepted my request with anger and irritation..waited fo 2 days...no work...so many excuses...branch manager was not here..our engineer did not come etc...went bank daily just letting them knw that im not sitting silenly unless they give info..
Then one call came from bank next day that I have to submit Rs 2200 as bank charges for getting details of that unknown person..decided to go on to reach that person anyhow..one day later got his account no. & it was other bank branch..we enquired few branches n got confirmation frm 1 branch but they cant provide info to civilians...returned to police station..called A.SHO..He took action soon and sent his employee with one request to bank providing case info...got culprit's no. Address..easily he accepted that he took my mobile with fear of police...got my mobile  ultimately...

Feeling happy not just to get my mobile back but to do my bit to make deterrence fo these types of persons.

This experience had taught me so many things...How police and bank work...how people misguide you just to escape from work..

If I would have sit quietly cursing God for doing this to me and wouldn't have taken use of advance technology available now for us then what will be the difference between me n  uneducated persons...Thanks to my hubby Sudhanshu Kumar and my friend Rashmi Nm to be there with me during whole process...Hats off to Punjab police, division  no. 5, Ludhiana specially Mr. Pawan Kumar , A. SHO for tremendous support  actand takingion soon.

There are negative vibes surrounding us always...yaar dont waste your time so much...you will get nothing in return...But I can say proudly now that there is more positive vibes too surrounding us which give us strengths to remain in  correct direction...Thanks again to everyone whoever supported me and to them too whoever pulled my leg during all these stuffs.

Rupam

Ladies will be ladies always 🥰

Got an inspiration today...Was leaving for office in auto...4 old ladies got inside after a while...All in age of 60s n one in 70s n widows I guess...full 25 mins journey I listened their talk in punjabi silently..could understand lil only..they were giggling chirping teasing each other like young ones..were coming from 1 satsang perhaps...so many hayyyyyeeee in their talks..commenting on how were the dresses of some ladies in satsang.. about their bahus...about their innocent sons..laughing on their own obesity...their cute innocent smile wid dimple almost made me forget to think abt their wrinkles...as if telling who the hell cares fo sadness of life..

Ladies will be ladies always n keep rocking at all age ...

Hilarious 😊


Rupam

Lipstick under Mask😃

Today one of my friend at office asked..Do you still need to apply lipstick under mask in this corona lockdown..its nice to avoid it for now..
I remembered one of the old memories..

One of my Muslim burqah clad friend during college days..In mere curiosity I asked her once..its so nice na you can wear anything or everything under your burqah even night gown..who will see..what the need of you to wear so nice work wala salwar suit etc under the burqah..Nobody watch those nice glittering dresses..

She just took a pause and replied..I wear these nice dresses just for my sake..for my happiness..for my confidence..Who cares for others..These dresses make me happy..make me feel beautiful about myself ☺️

So why not Lipstick under Mask ladies ♥️

Be Beautiful..Be Positive..Be Safe

Rupam

Madam Sambhalke☺️

During journey to office today..Being stopped at one point for checking in lockdown 2.0..The policeman asked khan ja rhi ho madam..I showed my curfew pass n office ID..He politely obliged & just told "Madam Sambhalke"..These two words just spoke everything..His care for common citizen in this pandemic time..his eyes with full of respect for me too now..I replied back "Yes Sir..Aap bhi".. I guess he didn't listen it ..may be because of mask of mine or sound of daytime & next person handling..But he doesn't know..his two words just made my day & added more sense of responsibility in myself too☺️

He had broken khadoos image of policewala in my mind since childhood unknowingly 😊

Rupam

Lockdown with Suru & hubby🥰

Mere Do Anmol Ratan

Well spent these days of lockdown..yoga..time with Suru..her smile..her chirpiness ..my irritation with her but still this time just worth it..few days of work due to emergency duty of FCI..from this morning same life with office duty continuously now..for food security of nation..but recharged and excited..still little worried with Corona too..but its ok..going to karmbhoomi again for work☺️

Rupam